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Thursday, May 31, 2012

Sad and Cry


Assalamu'alaikum

Hi everyone! ^^ How are you? I'm fine but tired. Over here, the weather its very hot! I don't like. A few days ago, I choked on a fishbone. So I almost lost my voice. Then I just prayer to Allah and I said '' O Allah, I know I have sins, that's why I was choked fishbone. " Half a past hour , my pharynx be normal, but the fishbone is in chest. I'm scared because I don't want to get a disease. :'(  ! Alhamdulillah I have mom which always gives support. She said '' Honey, be patient, it will be fishbones will rot whatsoever." so my heart was relieved when I heard these words.  Thank you Allah for my mother. ^^ !

Today I go to class English. But when I go to class I can not to answer the question. Maybe I do not focus in class, I don't know why what happen for me. and today I felt unhappy but who?? hmmm, never mind! Sometimes I want to someone in my life and talking with me. ' O Allah, what happen for me, I'm sick or what? '  I try to smile but can't. :'(  !

I wanna cry ! Okay I have to go bed and cry , see you soon .
Wassalam.

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Purity and Neatness

Assalamu'alaikum ...

     Hi everybody ! How are you ? I 'm fine. Okay today i wanna write about ''Purity And Neatness''. So I hope you happy when you are reading about this. ^^

     Allah's favourites are those who make constant efforts to be neat and clean. The Holy Prophet S.A.W has observed : "Purity and neatness are half of faith. " In other words, Faith partly consists in cleansing one's soul and partly in keeping pyhsically clean and pure. The purity and neatness of soul implies cleansing the soul of all impurities such as infidelity, polytheism, sin and vice and embellishing it with righteous beliefs and pure morals. The purity and neatness of the body denotes keeping it clear of all external filth and adorning it with neatness and good manners.

1. On waking up, clean your hand before putting it in a pot of water. You never can tell where your hands lay during sleep.

2. Do not discharge urine on the floor of bathroom / toilet, especially when its floor is made of soil.

3. When passing stool or urine, do not sit facing the direction of Qiblah, nor with your back to Qiblah. Having relieved yourself, use a clod or water to clean the private parts or purify yourself with water only. Do not use the dung, bone or charcoal for cleaning purpose. When the private parts have been cleaned, scrub your hands with soap or earth and wash them.

4. Do not sit down to eat when your bowels are under pressure. Relieve yourself of urine or stool, before eating.

5. Use your right hand for eating and drinking. For cleaning the private parts of the body or for cleaning the nose, use your left hand only.

6. Discharge urine on soft ground, so that its drops do not splash around. Always pass the urine in a sitting posture. However, if the condition of the ground or some real hardship prevents from sitting down, you may urinate in a standing posture. Otherwise, in normal circumstances, it is a very dirty habit and should be strictly avoided.

7. Do not sit down to answer the call of nature on the reverside, the quay, on the thoroughfares or in shaded places. Such a practice causes inconvenience to others and is derogatory to rules of propriety and good manners.

8. Put on shoes and cover your hand with a cap etc, before going to the lavatory and read the following prayer on your way :

      اَللَّهُمَّ اِنِّى اَعُوذُبِكَ مِنَ الْخُبُثِ وَالْخَبَاءِثِ
" Allah! I seek Thy protection against the devils of the masculine as well as the feminine species." (Bukhari, Muslim)

On emerging from the lavatory, read this prayer:

     اَلحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ الَّذِى اَذْهَبَ عَنِّى الْاَذَى وَعَافَانِى
" I thank Allah who relieved me of the burden and granted me ease." ( Nasai, Ibn-e-Majah)

9. Discharge your nose or phlegm with care in a spittoon, or do so in a place out of the sight of people.

10. Avoid putting your finger in the nostrils and clearing the wax of your nose too often. Clear the nose and clean it well out of the sight of people, whenever the need arises.

11. Strictly avoid the practice of spitting phlegm into the folds of a handkerchief and rubbing them together. This is a despicable habit and must be avoided expect when it cannot be helped.

12. While chewing betel leaf, do not talk in such a manner as to splash saliva on the person you are talking to, thus causing discomfort to him. if you chew tobacco or betel leaf frequently, you should take great care in  observing the rules of oral hygiene. Beware also, lest you should talk with your mouth too close to the person addressed.

13. Perform ablution with great care and try to keep in a state of ablution most of the time, if not at all hours. Where water is not available, you may perform Tayammmum. Recite 
     بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَن الرَّحِيم
" In the name of Allah, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful " at the commencement of ablution and say the following prayer in the course of its performance :

     اَشْهَدُ اَنْ لّآ اِله اِلَّا اللهُ وَحْدَهُ لاَ شَرِيكَ لَهُ وَاَشْهَدُ اَنَّ مُحَمَّدًا عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ اَللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْنِى مِنَ التَّوَّابِيْنَ وَاجْعَلْنِى مِنَ الْمُتَطَهِّرِين
" I bear witness that there is no god save Allah and He has no partner. And I testify that Muhammad is the servant of Allah and His Messengger. Allah! Join me with those people who repent most and take great care  in keeping themselves pure and clean. "  (Tirmizi)

When the ablution is over, say the following prayer:

     سُبْحَانَكَ اَللَّهُمَّ وَبِحَمْدِكَ اَشْهَدُ اَنْ لا اله الا انت اَسْتَغْفِرُكَ وَاَتُوبُ اِلَيك
" Allah! Thou art Pure and Supreme in Thy Praiseworthiness. I testify that there is no deity beside Thee. I seek Thy forgiveness and I appeal to Thee." (Nasai)

The Holy Prophet S.A.W. observed :

"The hallmark of my Ummah on the Day of Judgment will be that their foreheads and other parts of the body on which ablution is performed will be radiant with light. Hence whosoever wishes to enchance his light is free to do so." (Bukhari, Muslim)

14. Brush your teeth with miswak (twig) regularly. The Holy Prophet S.A.W has affirmed :

" I would have decreed the brushing of teeth with a miswak (twig) during all ablutions but for the inconvenience it would have caused to the Ummah."

On one occasion, some people arrived to see the Holy Prophet S.A.W. Their teeth were stained with yellow grease. On observing their teeth the Holy Prophet S.A.W. urged them to form the habit of using miswak.

15. You must bathe at least once a week. Make it a point to bathe on Friday and join the Friday congregation in clean and neat dress. The Holy Prophet S.A.W. said :

" Discharging of trust leads to Paradise. " The Companions R.A.A. submitted : O Apostle of Allah ! What is meant by Trust? "

The Apostle of Allah observed :

" Allah has appointed no greater trust than cleansing oneself of impurity by taking bath. " Hence a person must take bath when he needs one.

16. Do not go into or pass through the mosque in a state of impurity. If no alternative is availabl, perform the Tayammum before entering the mosque or passing through it.

17. Dress your hair with oil and comb. Trim the overgrown hair of you beard with scissors ; apply collyrium to your eyes, clip your nails and keep finger-nails clean. Adorn yourself with propriety, simplicity and moderation.

18. Cover your face with a handkerchief on sneezing, so that the excretion is not splashed on anyone else. After sneezing say :

     اَلْحَمْدُلِلَّهِ
" Praise be to Allah! "

The listener should say :

     يَرْحَمُكَ لله
" May Allah show you Mercy! "

In response to this, you should recite :

     يَهْدِيْكَ الله
" May Allah guide you. "

19. The Holy Prophet S.A.W. was very fond of perfume. After finishing the toilet on arising from sleep, the Holy Prophet S.A.W. invariably used perfume.

Okay guys, thanks for support. If I have wrong you can help me .
Check it out !
Wassalam.

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Hari Ibu

Assalamu'alaikum

     Hi guys ! Apa khabar semua? Semua macam mana dengan keadaan hari ini ( ahad 13hb mei 2012 ) ?
Hari ini adalah Hari Ibu kan, ? ^^ tapi setelah saya tahu yang Hari Ibu tidak boleh meraihkan jadi saya just biasa-biasa je.. haha ! ^^

     Walaubagaimana pun setiap hari sebenarnya adalah hari ibu, tidak perlu kita nak tunggu time Hari Ibu sahaja baru nak bagi hadiah , meminta maaf dan sebagainya.

    Ok kat sini saya nak tulis apa yang saya baca kat dalam buku and saya nak copy balik , ^^ ! Harap korang enjoy la ya.. Terima kasih.. ^^

Orang kata aku lahir dari perut ibu..
Bila dahaga, yang susukan aku... ibu
Bila lapar, yang suapkan aku.. ibu
Bila keseorangan, yang sentiasa di sampingku ...ibu

Kata ibu, perkataan pertama yang aku sebut ... Ma!
Bila bangun tidur, aku cari...ibu
Bila nangis, orang pertama yang datang.. ibu
Bila nak bermanja..aku dekati ibu

Bila nak bergesel..aku duduk sebelah ibu
Bila sedih, yang boleh memujukku hanya ibu
Bila nakal, yang memarahi aku.. ibu
Bila merajuk..yang memujukku cuma..ibu

Bila melakukan kesalahan.. yang paling cepat marah.. ibu
Bila takut..yang tenangkan aku .. ibu
Bila nak peluk.. yang aku suka peluk .. ibu
Aku selalu teringatkan..ibu

Bila sedih, aku mesti telefon .. ibu
Bila seronok.. orang pertama aku nak beritahu..ibu
Bila bengang..aku suka luah pada ..ibu
Bila takut, aku selalu panggil..''ibuuuuuuuuuuuuuu''

Bila sakit, orang paling risau adalah.. ibu
Bila nak exam, orang paling sibuk juga ibu
Bila merajuk, yang datang pujuk aku juga..ibu
Bila buat hal, yang marah aku dulu..ibu

Bila ada masalah,yang paling risau..ibu
Yang masih peluk dan cium aku sampai hari ni..ibu
Yang selalu masak makanan kegemaranku..ibu
Yang selalu simpan dan kemaskan barang-barang aku, ibu

Yang selalu berleter kat aku..ibu
Yang selalu puji aku..ibu
Yang selalu nasihat aku..  ibu
Bila nak kahwin..

Orang pertama aku tunjuk dan rujuk..ibu
Aku ada pasangan hidup sendiri
Bila seronok..aku cari pasanganku
Bila sedih..aku cari ibu

Bila berjaya..aku ceritakan pada pasanganku
Bila gagal..aku ceritakan pada ibu
Bila bahagia, aku peluk erat pasanganku
Bila berduka, aku peluk erat ibuku

Bila nak bercuti..aku bawa pasanganku
Bila sibuk..aku hantar anak ke rumah ibu
Bila sambut valantine.. aku hadiahi bunga pada pasanganku
Bila sambut hari ibu..

Aku cuma dapat ucapkan Selamat Hari Ibu
Selalu.. aku ingat pasanganku
Selalu.. ibu ingat pada aku
Bila..bila.. aku akan hubungi pasanganku

Entah bila..aku nak telefon ibu
Selalu.. aku belikan hadiah untuk pasanganku
Entah bila..aku nak belikan hadiah untuk ibuku

Pesan ibu dulu:
   ''Kalau kau sudah habis belajar dan berkerja..bolehkah kau kirim wang untuk ibu? Ibu bukan nak banyak..lima puluh ringgit sebulan pun cukuplah.'' Berderai air mata aku. Hari ini kalau ibu mahu lima ratus sebulan pun aku mampu. Aku boleh kirimkan. Tapi ibu sudah tiada. Aku tidak berkesempatan lagi..bukan lima puluh ringgit..lima puluh sen pun tidak sempat aku kirimkan! Hanya yang termampu..Al-fatihah, Al-fatihah, Al-fatihah buat ibu tercinta. - The End - sad story :'(  -


    Bila saya habis je baca ayat ni, maka keluar la air mata saya yang tak boleh di takung lagi. Sedihnya..... memang sedih, sebab tu la saya katakan diatas tadi, bukan time waktu Hari Ibu je.. sebenarnya HARI HARI itulah HARI IBU.. Jadi sesiapa yang masih ada lagi Ibu harap korang hargai lah dia.. sebelum dia meninggal kan korang.. ^^ !

     Ok Terima kasih atas sudi membaca dan saya rasa harap korang suka dengan topik kali ini.

" Saya ada kawan
Nama kawan aman
Saya suka kawan
Dan hidup aman. "

" Ikan keli susah nak mati
Bila masak kena ada alas,
Bila hati rasa susah hati,
Cepat-cepat lah mintak maaf. "

Thanks!
Wassalam.

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Saya hodoh



Saya tahu saya tidak cantik.. Tapi, walaupun saya tidak cantik, saya tetap ada kelebihan..

Kerana saya tidak cantik, saya tidak jadi mangsa gangguan lelaki-lelaki yang rosak akhlaknya.

Kerana saya tidak cantik, saya dapat pelihara diri saya daripada pandangan bernafsu lelaki yang tidak menjaga pandangannya.

Kerana saya tidak cantik, saya selamat daripada menjadi senjata iblis mencairkan iman lelaki.

Kerana saya tidak cantik, saya tidak mendapat fitnah dan cemburu daripada wanita-wanita lain.

Kerana saya tidak cantik, saya tidak mengharapkan pujian daripada mana-mana lelaki dan wanita.

Dan kerana saya tidak cantik, akhirnya saya menemui insan yang ikhlas mencintai dan melamar saya serta menerima saya seadanya.

Kerana saya tahu.. Saya tidak cantik pada pandangan manusia.. Maka saya akan berusaha agar kelihatan cantik disisi ALLAH s.w.t Kerana bukan kecantikan dunia yang saya kejar... Tapi KECANTIKAN di akhirat kelak...

Nak cuba belajar apa yang tertera diatas ini. ^^ ! Dan walaupun ayat diatas itu ramai sangat orang post kat facebook. Tapi ramai lagi girl-girl still tidak berubah. Termasuk diri ini juga ^^ ! Maksud saya tidak berubah adalah dari segi Confidence. ^^ !

Dan saya ada lagi nak dikatakan iaitu :-



OK, terima kasih atas sudi membaca. check it out! Bye. ^^ !

Wassalam.

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Conversation

Assalamu'alaikum

     Hello guys! ^^  I really miss you all because you all liked read my blog ^^ ! How are you today? Are you happy ? I hope so.. ^^  Ok, today I wanna write about how to Conversation. I hope you all enjoy the title this.

1. Always speak the truth. Never hesitate speaking the truth even at the greatest risk.

2. Speak only when you must, and always talk with a purpose. Too much talk and useless conversation betrays lack of seriousness. You are accountable before Allah for every word you utter. The angel of Allah records :

     #* " A supervisor remains vigilant to preserve on record every speech that is uttered by his tongue" *#

3. Always speak politely. Wear a smile on you face and a sweet tone in your speech. Always speak in a moderate voice. Do not keep your voice so low as to be inaudible to the addressee, nor raise it so loud that the addressee might be over-awed by your voice.
The Holy Quran affirms :

     #* " The harshest of all the voices is the voice of the ass. " - (surah Luqman verse 19) *#

4. Do not spoil your tongue with dirty talk. Do not speak ill of others. Never indulge in backbiting. Do not complain against others. Never indulge in mimicking others to ridicule them. Do not make false promises. Never laugh at others, nor boast of your own superiority or indulge in self-praise. Never get unreasonable and rash in conversation. Do not pass remarks on others or satirize them. Do not call someone by a disgraceful name. Avoid swearing frequently.

5. Always say what is just and fair regardless of any loss to yourself, your friend or relative.

     #* " And when you say something speak what is just even if you are talking about your relative. " *#

6. Be soft-spoken, reasonable and sympathetic in your conversation. Do not utter sharp, harsh and teasing remarks.

7. When women happen to talk with men, they should speak in clear, straight and rough manner. They ought not speak in delicate, sweet tone lest the listener should enternain any foul expectation.

8. If the impudent wish to entangle you in dialogue or altercation offer them 'Salam' politely and leave them. Those who indulge in loose talk and absurd conversation are the worst lot of the Ummah.

9. Keep in view the mental level and outlook of the man you are talking to so as to make him understand. If the addressee cannot hear or is unable to catch your meaning, repeat what you have said before without any resentment.

10. Always be brief and to the point in your talk. It is unfair to prolong discussion without ryhme or reason.

11. When you wish to explain the tenets of Islam; want to speak on the teachings of Islam be simple and clear and speak in a passionate and heart-warming style. To seek reputation through oratory, to try to impress people, to adopt a proud and haughty mien, or to deliver speeches only for the sake of fun or recreation - all these are the worst habits that corrupt the man to the core of his heart.

12. Never indulge in flattery, nor ingratiate with anybody. Always mind your honour and respect amd avoid any thing below your dignity.

13. Do not interrupt and interfere in others conversation without their permission, nor intercept others conversation in order to say something yourself. If, however, you must speak, do so with the permission of other.

14. Speak slowly in a proper and dignified manner. Do not speak in a hurried manner nor indulge in fun and jokes all the time as it degrades you in the eyes of others.

15. If somebody puts a question to you, listen carefully to him and make an answer after careful thought. It is simply foolish to answer the question without due consideration. If the questions are being put to somebody else, do not be so officious as to give answers yourself.

16. When someone is narrating something, do not say 'we know already'. May be he reveals something new and impresses you by his sincerity and piety.

17. When you talk to someone, give due regard to his age, status and his relationship to you. Do not talk with your parents, teachers, and elders in a manner in which you would talk to your friends. Likewise, when you are talking to youngster, speak with affection and elderly dignity.

18. While engaged in conversation, do not point out towards any one lest he should conceive any misunderstanding or suspicion. Abstain from eavesdropping on others.

19. Listen more and talk less. Do not reveal your secrets to others. Once you disclose a secret to someone, never expect it to remain a secret any more.

     Ok, thank you for reading . ^^ ! Check it out , and bye !

Wassalam.

Sunday, May 6, 2012

Cry A Woman

Assalamu'alaikum

     Hi guys! How are you? Are you happy there? I hope so.. ^^ ! Today I wanna talk about why woman cry. Now you can read this story.. ^^ !

                                             

     A little boy asked his mother,  "Mommy, why are you crying?". And she replied, "Because I am woman". "But I don't understand mom". The mother leaned over to him, hugged him and said: " My love, you would never understand !
 
      Later the little boy asked his father, " Daddy, why Mom sometimes cries, for no reason?" The man replied: "All women always cry for no reason"

     It was all that the father was able to respond the little boy grew into a man. And, from time to time, made himself the question: "Why do women cry without reason for this?"

     One day this man read the book about woman,

"Why do women cry so ease?". "When, had to do something very special. Her shoulders strong enough to withstand any of the weight of the world. Yet soft enough to comfort him! Her an immense inner strength, that he might bear pains of motherhood and the contempt that often comes from their own children! I gave him the strength that allows him to continue always to take care of his family, without complaint, despite illness and fatigue, even when others give the points! Her sensitivity to love her children under any circumstances, even when these kids have really hurt. This sensitivity allows you to chase away any sadness, crying or child's suffering, and share the anxieties, doubts and fears of adolescence!


      "Now I understand the feeling of my mother, my sister, my wife. Thank you Allah.. " -end-

So think it ! Hope you enjoy this story , And my english sucks sorry guys.
Check it out, bye !

Wassalam.

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Advice for teens

Assalamu'alaikum..

     Hi guys.... How are you? Are you happy? I hope so.. Okay, Today I wanna talk about problem or tension or trouble... ^^ !
   
When you or your friends are in trouble and have a problem, here are some things you can do :

 * Listen to Al-Quran or read.
 * Zikr (anything) and Solat Taubat.
 * Listen to music and try to relax.
 * Write the problem on a piece of paper. Then make a list of things
    you can do and put them in order.
 * Don't eat a lot of food - it doesn't make you feel better.
 * Don't sit in the house.
 * Go for a walk - exercise is good for you.
 * Talk to a friend about your problem.

     What can you do when a friend has a problem ? Here are some ideas :

 * Listen to your friend - don't speak a lot.
 * Ask question. Help your friend to talk openly.
 * Your friend's problem is private. Don't tell other people about it.

     Okay , I hope the advise can help you.
Check it out. Bye. ^^ !
Wassalam.